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Female Hypergamy

Which way is up?

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Mary Gaitskill
Mar 27, 2023
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Subscription warning: In this post I take seriously people and concepts some of you might find ridiculous, including manosphere bloggers of the red pill and purple pill variety. Some of you may wonder why I would bother, some may find it redundant; it’s very much about traditional ideas of male and female, the clutching onto and slippage thereof. But others of you I’m pretty sure will be interested. Right or wrong these ideas are foundational and when they shift and/or crack it affects the ground we walk on. So…

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